Have you ever dated a man and wondered if what you feel for him is real love? Some women can’t tell the difference between real love, fondness, and lust, which leaves them feeling confused and overwhelmed. According to experts, it is only real love if you are doing certain things in your relationship. Read on to find out what you should be doing if it’s real love.
If it’s real love, you shouldn’t feel awkward or weird getting mad at him when you’re mad at him. And you definitely shouldn’t hold back your anger and hide it from him. Real love gets angry, even if people like to pretend they never fight. Fighting is healthy, and it makes people happier in the long run, as long as it’s productive and never hurtful.
It’s okay to cry in front of your man. If it’s real love, you don’t mind showing your vulnerable side and he doesn’t mind finding a way to help you feel better about what it is that’s upsetting you. Perhaps he holds you until you stop or maybe he walks away because he knows that you like to cry sometimes because it makes you feel so much better afterward.
Not Looking Amazing
You dress up for date night, always look nice for work, and never look bad in front of him. In fact, you wake up extra early on nights you sleep over at one another’s house just so you can jump in the shower, fix your hair, and reapply your makeup before he sees you looking anything less than perfect. Forget it. If you are going to spend the rest of your life with this guy, you should feel comfortable enough to look like a train wreck when you aren’t doing anything. Real love isn’t always gorgeous; and neither are you.