If there’s one thing I’ve noticed in the 11 years I’ve been with my husband, it’s how little our single friends can see. They are intelligent, smart, attractive people with a ton of common sense, and yet they occasionally cannot see what’s right in front of them. What I’m talking about, of course, is the number of our single friends who cannot see that the person they are into simply is not into them. If you are unsure about the person you are into, you will be after reading this.
If you’ve been spending a lot of time together whether it’s going to movies and dinners and concerts or you’re even friends with benefits and he’s still introducing you to people as his friend, he’s not that into you.
Location and Time
When you suggest romantic dinners at intimate restaurants and pre-dinner cocktails at his place, and he constantly suggests lunch in a crowded place, parties with a lot of people, and social gatherings in which you are not anywhere near romantic, he’s not that into you.
He’s Not Answering
Of course he could be driving 80 miles per hour down the turnpike, in a meeting, or on a plane. However, if you repeatedly call and text and email and he’s not responding, he’s not that into you. Technology makes it far too easy to get in touch with someone in a matter of minutes for him to constantly “miss” your calls and texts.
Last Minute Plans
It’s totally okay to decide to see someone at the last minute, but if you notice he only calls you at the last minute to make plans – and none of those plans are in advance – he’s probably using you as his last resort. Trust me, you’re not the person he really wants to spend his evening with; but you’ll do.