Now that the New Year has arrived, it’s time to think about how you want to improve your relationships. Whether it’s your relationship with your mom, your siblings, your coworkers, your spouse or even your kids, learning how to improve your relationships is going to help you and your loved ones grow. It’s going to help you introduce happiness to your life in a way you’ve never imagined you could. But there is a catch; you can’t improve your relationships the way you think you can – it’s not all about “fixing” other people to improve your relationships.
Look at You
You might look at your husband and think that he’s just a pain sometimes. Perhaps he’s a workaholic or he doesn’t listen or you think he doesn’t care about the same things as you, which makes you feel insignificant and unimportant. Your first reaction might be to talk to him about this – it’s a bad idea. You’re focusing on his flaws instead of what you should be focusing on, which is why you only see in the negative.
Look at you. What can YOU do to improve your relationships? Make a list of things you can change about you that will improve your relationships. Perhaps you could call your mom more often to make her happy or you could become more positive and upbeat with your husband. When you take the time to change yourself, others will either follow suit or you’ll realize that they weren’t in need of change to begin with – you were.
When you change your own attitude, you can change your relationships. It’s hard to be around someone who is positive and upbeat at all times and not feel the same way. Start doing that in your own life and see how much it impacts and improves your relationships. It’s not always easy to be positive, but with some practice it will become second nature to you and everyone around you.
It’s not a new concept, but it is one that can help your life and your relationships with everyone. By being patient with the people in your life – you included – you’ll feel happier and less overwhelmed. Be patient when things aren’t going your way, when they are going your way, and when you don’t think that they could ever go your way. Patience is a virtue and it can greatly improve the way you feel about your loved ones as well as the way they feel about you.
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