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There are usually 15 signs someone has a deep emotional connection with you. You can miss a few of them, but you probably shouldn’t.
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They do more than listen
Anyone who gives you the time of day is special enough. But if someone sits down and understands what you’re talking about there could easily be a deep emotional connection, even if they don’t say as much.
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They pay attention to details
You’ve probably told a few people a few things about your life. Those who have a deep emotional connection with you will remember more than the broad strokes of your life and respect all of it.
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They actually show up
People sending likes on Facebook and texts when you’re going through hard times are fine. But someone with a deep emotional connection will be there, in the flesh, just to support you.
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Their happiness for you isn’t feigned
A lot of people will say they’re happy for you, but someone with this type of connection will mean it. This person will sit with you and share in your satisfaction.
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They put you on their schedule
It doesn’t matter if they’re stressed or overworked, they’ll take time for you. They won’t flake or give an excuse why they can’t hang out. They’re there, for better or worse.
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They don’t question bringing you into their social circle
Once you’re in, you’re in. They will introduce you to their inner circle and they will make you feel like you’ve been a part of their life for years. This shows they care.
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They don’t question your dreams
Finding someone who supports you without any question is tough. This type of person will support everything you believe in, no matter how outlandish.
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They give you absolute comfort
This type of person will make it possible for you to feel nothing but comfort in your own skin. That means that you can give more to them, you can give more to yourself, and your personal balance will allow you to show the world who you really are.
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They tell you what you need to hear
A straight shooter is better than a pleasing liar. This type of person will tell you what is needed in a given situation, not what will allow you to skate to the next emotional high.
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They don’t play to your ego
A person who will stroke your ego does nothing to add to your character. A person with a deeper connection will build you up in a way that makes you better.
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They anticipate your needs
This is tough, since most of us are not not mind-readers. But someone who knows you this well will manage to find a way to be there in ways you won’t expect.
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They don’t judge you
Hey, judge not lest ye be judged, right? We’re not perfect, and those who connect with you in a deeper way will realize this, and they won’t hold mistakes against you.
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They refuse to put up with your nonsense
Granted, if you don’t offer nonsense then there’s less to put up with. But people who really care about you won’t even give it a glance. They’ll deal with you, not your issues.
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They’re always there, one way or another
Even if they can’t physically be there they’ll call, or they’ll find a way to support you. There’s no such thing as ‘no way’ when it comes to propping you up.
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They’re not easy to push away
This can become a negative quality, but in terms of staying positive, it means that they will weather the storm that is you. They’ll endure your emotions and they’ll willingly face your dark side. That’s not something everyone will do.
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