
LifeĀ is such an eye-opener. When I look at life, I see my own stuff. My own happiness, my own problems, my own way of life. I get so accustomed to the way that we do things in our family that itās always a bit of a surprise to me when other people mention how they do things in their family. I suppose we are all a bit jaded, but I have to tell you that something happened recently that really made me look at life a bit differently. My husband and I are best friends with two other couples. We are all very similar in our place in life and while we donāt all share the same tastes in the life or interests, we are all similar in many ways.
We recently had a pool party. When we have a party of any sort, we all pack up our beverages in our Yeti Coolers and bring them with. If weāre drinking beer, itās in our Yeti Colster. If we are drinking rum and diet, itās in our Yeti Tumblers. When Iām having anything else, itās in my Yeti Lowball. We all have all the products, and we use them all the time. When someone who is not part of our particular group of friends walked onto the pool deck and saw all the [easyazon_link identifier=”B0175L8DDM” locale=”US” tag=”housely-20″]Yeti coolers[/easyazon_link] and everyone drinking out of their Yeti cups/colsters/lowballs, he made a comment that caused us all to laugh ā and me to stop.
āYou know youāre talking to people with money when you see all those Yetis!ā We laughed; we all know we have a lot of them, but we love them. That made me think, though. I didnāt think it was much to spend $40 on a cup, but a lot of people do. When he said that heās been wanting the cup for a while and was hoping it might be on his Christmas list from his wife, I realized that we are all so vastly different. Some people have their financial priorities together, and some people donāt. Now, Iām not saying he doesnāt, Iām just saying he made the comment that he simply is not where he wants to be in life at the moment because heās working on getting his financial life in order. I respect that ā big time. It made me think: How can people get their financial lives on track whether they are starting out or whether they are starting over?
Set A Goal
I once had a friend tell me that he didnāt know what he wanted to be when he grew up, but he knew that he just wanted to be able to run through the drive thru for lunch and not wonder if he had enough money to pay for a meal and that he always wanted to have enough money in the bank to fill up his car when he needed gas.
I thought that was a little bit underwhelming, but he makes a good point. We all have financial goals in life. Mine is to pay for four kids to go to university and pay for three weddings that have to be pretty amazing and spectacular ā and to buy four cars in less than four years for my kids. I just want to be comfortable my entire life. I like to be able to go to the store and buy what I need. I like to see something I like and order it without thinking twice. We all have financial goals; to pay for school, to buy a house, to live comfortably. Whatever your goals, you just have to make them a priority and it helps you to get your financial life in order.
Live Smart
Someone said something like āLike unlike anyone else today so you can live unlike anyone else tomorrow,ā and I like that. You donāt have to have what other people have to be happy. Do you need a house thatās outside your budget so itās as big or as fancy as a friendās? You donāt; and Iām willing to bet that youād be much happier living in a smaller house with a more affordable mortgage and the ability to travel and have fun than you would moving into something you can barely afford and living life with constant fear and worry that you cannot afford to live. Live smart ā and live happy.
Avoid Debt
If you have it, get rid of it. If you donāt have it, donāt accumulate it. If you want to get your financial life in order, stay away from owing anyone anything at any time. If you have to have a mortgage, go for it. However, you donāt need a car payment and you donāt need to owe creditors. Avoid it ā itās how you maintain financial freedom.
Save
The most important thing you can do to reach financial freedom and get your finances in order is to save. Put money away, and do not touch it. You donāt need to touch it; so donāt. Itās the best advice we can give you about getting your finances in order.
Bonus: Reward Yourself
If you’ve already figured out how to manage your finances, then a congratulations is in order. I’d recommend rewarding yourself and joining the Yeti crew by clicking the cooler below!
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