Lying, my friends, is not nice. Now that the catās out of the bag, let me break the ice by saying that I just thought of at least three ways in which Iāve lied to my kids in the past five minutes (the biggest one being that a certain 5-year-old will not be going to her monthly sleepover night at Grandma and Grandpaās with her cousins this weekend if she doesnāt stop picking on her sisterā¦because mommy and daddy donāt like to punish ourselvesā¦).
Lying isnāt nice, but for some reason itās a form of survival and a necessary evil when youāre parenting. I canāt think of one parent who hasnāt lied about something (Iām talking to you, Miss āSorry sweetie, there are no more cookiesā). So, how do you know if youāre lying is downright wrong or if itās okay? If it makes you feel any better, here are a couple of common lies we tell our children and a breakdown of why they are okay (really, I donāt condone lying).
Youāll Throw Something Away
Okay, so when your kids donāt clean up their rooms before bed and you threaten to pick up all their toys for them by placing them in a trash bag and walking it to the street so the nice guys in the big garbage truck can have them in the morning, itās a lie. Those toys were expensive. Youāre not throwing them away. Itās not a nice lie, but itās an effective one so therefore itās okay in mommy years to lie about this. If it gets your kids motivated to do their chores, then so be it.
The āInsert Name of Bakery/Toy Store/Attraction Hereā is Closed
Sometimes you just donāt want to stop for yet another day of looking at dinosaur bones in the same old childrenās museum, so you lie. Itās okay. Your kids arenāt going to lose out on anything by not getting to go to the dinosaur museum for the 78th time this month. Youāre good to go.
Santaās Watching
Technically, you are Santa. So technically, this is not a lie. There. Enough said.
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