10 Items That Defined “Coming Of Age” For Women In The ’60s

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Imagine turning 18 and already needing a wardrobe checklist just to be “respectable.” That was the 1960s vibe. Accessories weren’t just fun, but they were mandatory. If you didn’t own these, people noticed. So, what exactly did every girl need before blowing out those “I’m 18” candles? Let’s unpack them, one item at a time.

Pearls

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Nothing said “grown-up” faster than a string of pearls. Most girls received their first set as teenagers, often gifted by their parents or grandparents. Being real or imitation didn’t matter much; what mattered was how they complemented everything from a shift dress to a Peter Pan collar.

White Gloves

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White gloves were a must for respectability in the early ’60s, signaling etiquette more than hygiene. Worn to church or on dates, they reflected post-war ideals of ladylike decorum. By the late years of that decade, as fashion loosened up, glove-wearing quietly faded away, reserved for some formal occasions.

Compact Mirrors

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A compact was practically a passport to adulthood, rather than just for checking your lipstick. Placed inside every handbag, it whispered confidence. Pulling it out with a snap in a school bathroom made a girl feel like a movie star, even if the mirror caught more freckles than glamour.

A Structured Handbag

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By the age of 18, girls were expected to carry a structured handbag with a firm handle, not a floppy satchel. Often made of patent leather or sturdy vinyl, these bags went beyond just style to hold items like tissues and combs. They signaled maturity more than any 18th birthday could.

Nylon Stockings

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In the ’60s, graduating from tights to nylons was like earning your womanhood badge. These wispy wonders came in boxes made of cardboard and were absolutely unforgiving. A rogue fingernail on it could cause disaster, but a smooth, run-free fit was perfect. Girls mastered garter belts before pantyhose arrived. It wasn’t just fashion, but a chore.

Lockets

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For many girls, a locket was the first deeply personal piece of jewelry they owned. Inside those tiny hearts or oval-shaped pendants sat a black-and-white photo of a parent, boyfriend, or even a pet. Given as a sweet sixteen gift, it often became a symbol of affection and memory.

Scarves

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Scarves were endlessly versatile, as they were tied under chins or knotted at the throat. They added personality to outfits and often held subtle sentiments. Perfumed silk hinted at someone’s crush, while a patterned square might signal borrowed confidence or quiet rebellion added into a daily look.

Charm Bracelets

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Each charm meant something. A ballet slipper for dance class or a graduation cap for when high school wrapped up. Girls often added charms slowly, creating a metal memory lane, one piece at a time. The jingle that came with it wasn’t noise. It was proof that they were collecting memories through their bracelets.

Cat-Eye Sunglasses

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Not everyone had Hollywood glam, but every girl could fake it with a pair of cat-eye shades. Some had rhinestones that sparkled like teenage ambition. Worn at beach parties or while cruising, they weren’t just for the sun—they hid pimples and attitude.

Hope Chests

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The hope chest, common in mid-century households, wasn’t simply for storage. It symbolized a young woman’s transition into domestic life, often before she understood what that meant. It was filled with handmade linens and family heirlooms. It also quietly mapped out her expected future: marriage and the fulfillment of someone else’s blueprint.

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